Two Cats are Better Than One!
Just about everyone who adopts a cat says, ‘Oh, I wish I could just take them all home!’ If only! Very few people are in a position to care for a cluster of cats, but opting for a single kitten is not usually the best idea either. If you are looking to adopt a kitten under 6 months old and you don’t already have another cat, you really should at least consider adopting a duo.
Social Growth Kitten-hood is a crucial time for development, just like infancy is for human babies. Kittens learn from their mother, their siblings, their environment, and any other cats in the household. They learn how to hunt, play, socialize, and communicate. They figure out who is in charge, what is appropriate behavior, and how to perfect their motor skills and physical abilities. In many situations, a mother is not always present, making time with their litter mates even more important. (Remember, cats are kittens, physically and mentally, throughout the first year or two of their life.)
Importance of Play Playtime is not just fun and games: there are lessons to be learned in every pounce, every stalk, every bite. One of the most important lessons is that of the inhibited bite. Wrestling and roughhousing with other cats helps kittens to learn an appropriate level of playtime aggression. If a kitten bites too hard, the other cat is not going to tolerate it. Over time, this will teach them how to gently ‘bite’ without any pressure, and also encourage them to play without their nails extended.
Single Kitten Syndrome When a kitten spends the first six months or so of his life alone, he won’t learn what is acceptable, and will often exhibit undesirable behaviors towards people and other cats. ‘Single kitten syndrome,’ though not a medically diagnosable condition, is the term for such behavior. Of course, not all single kittens will turn out this way, just as not all only-children are spoiled and bratty, but it is commonly seen and best to be avoided. It seems a little counter-intuitive, but a kitten raised alone does not learn independence. Rather, they are more likely to become overly dependent on a human, distraught during separations, and less able to deal with minor stressors. Other behaviors associated with single-kittens include chasing and biting ankles, excessive neediness, boredom, and loneliness. Those last few are often coupled with destructive behaviors because, like kids, a kitten left alone for a few hours must find a way to keep himself occupied. Here at Pet Adoption Network, we’ve heard it over and over again.
Still, someone might say, the kitten doesn’t need a playmate because I’m going to be her best friend; shower her with love and toys and lots of treats. Isn’t that good enough? Not really, because a human, no matter how much they offer, can never be a substitute for a feline companion or replicate behaviors crucial to teaching a kitten how to be a well-adjusted cat.
Cats are like potato chips ‘You can’t have just one!’ Have you heard that saying before? Apparently, it holds true! In 2012, of all the homes with cats in the United States, 55% of them were multi-cat households. So, there’s a really good chance you’ll end up with another anyway, but its easier to do it all at once. The longer a cat stays solo, the harder it is to introduce a second (it’s nearly always possible to do so, it just takes much longer.) Having a cat that is good with other cats is important in the unfortunate case that they ever need to be re-homed; it greatly increases their adoptability and makes their experience in a shelter environment less stressful.
Perhaps the most compelling reason to adopt a pair is the sheer cuteness. A kitten playing alone is pretty darn adorable, but two kittens playing and cuddling together? Infinitely more adorable; its almost too much to handle. Almost.
What about the expenses? Aside from the initial costs of adoption fees (many groups, including Pet Adoption Network, offer discounts for adopting pairs), a second cat is not much more expensive or more work than one, and they can share many of the same supplies like toys, litter boxes, and food dishes. Kittens separated from other members of their species at a very young age can develop a pathological fear of other animals. No one knows what the future holds for you and your cat. A well-rounded cat that is acclimated to other animals can only have an easier time in life- even going to the vet will be less stressful.
If you really can’t handle or have more than one cat, that’s OK. There is still someone perfect for you! There are always cats that would prefer to be your one-and-only, and while they aren’t babies, they can be as young as 6 months and full of kitten spirit. Any rescue group will help you find a cat that is a good match for your family and lifestyle, so please take their advice. That way, you know the cat will be as happy as possible, and you will be, too.
And now, I’ll leave you with some more cuddling cuteness of Thana & Tarot.